Throwing “shade” on social media? Not my cup of tea. But what happens when the shade is being thrown at you? I have found myself in this situation a couple of times, including now. Each time from the same person with this time, the shade being out of my vision since I was shielded from their social media accounts. It all started from a disagreement that I would not consider to be big or trivial enough to dissolve a relationship. For me, this was a product of the other party’s grief and life circumstances, it is not 100% about our different opinions.
I’ve remained hopeful in trying to send messages to let the other person know that I’m still on their side when they are no longer angry; however, now I stand corrected. They will likely never not hate me.
What can I do?
I’ve made up my mind that I will continue wishing them well and rooting for them from a far. I will continue doing things to enrich my own life and maybe one day, there will be no hard feelings. With that being said, it’s hard to know people you care about are going through a difficult time and you cannot help them. It is always in the back of my mind but I can only pray.
Have any of you guys been in similar situations? Comment down below and express your experiences.